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Proactive

 

Proactive

 

Proactive

 

 

Always be Proactive

 

 

There is nothing wrong with having fun, being with family and

 

Friends.  We have to be careful about how much we do

 

anything.

 

 

Especially if you believe you may have any addictions

 

There are many issues that can become addictions besides

 

Alcohol and drugs (illegal or legal).

 

There is:

 

Food

 

Spending

 

Exercising

 

Loosing weight

 

Eating

 

Depression

 

 

Sleeping

 

 

 

There is almost everything that can become addictions.

 

 

It is about a sense of self and the way you live your life.  You can

 

Determine importance not only by how much you are doing it, but

 

how much you are letting other things go that needs to be done.

 

also by how much you are not doing other things.

 

 

PRIORITY EQUALS IMPORTANCE

 

 

 

There is nothing wrong engaging in pleasurable activity but there

 

Is a line between activity and addiction when the activity that is?

 

positive or neutral takes a decidedly negative turn.

 

Different families have weakened genes and DNA that if

 

A person takes recreational pot that can be a door to more drugs:

 

Meth, cocaine, heron, a murid number of things.  Take myself,

 

My family has a lot of alcoholism and drug addictions so I treat

 

myself very gingerly about drinking and have never put drugs into

 

my body.  I know I have a very addictive personality, and whether

 

it is drinking or food I am addictive.

 

 

Is what you are doing is causing a disruption in your life then you

 

need to address the issue.

 

 

I am very careful how much I drink – 1-2 glasses of wine is

 

my limit and usually only 1 or 2 times a year I will have wine

 

at home by myself.

 

Any addiction is a behavior that controls you.  Usually people

 

that have addictions do not like to be controlled but cannot

 

understand how much they are being controlled by their

 

additions.

 

Change is the most important thing in YOUR life-and it is

 

sometimes the hardest thing to do but DO IT.

 

What Life expects from YOU does not happen unless you are

 

willing to make those big changes that need to be done.

We all have issues, we all probably have some kind of addictions

 

that maybe we are not alcoholic – there are so many other kinds

 

of addictions.

 

Address those issues or addictions – make the necessary

 

Changes

 

Be courageous, be strong, be brave.  Use all YOUR good

 

energies you can dig up out of SELF.

 

Any addiction is a behavior that control YOU

 

Your impulses,

 

Your Pleasures

 

Your anxieties

 

Your fears

 

Your preferences

 

These take center stage over YOUR better judgment or reasoned

 

decisions.

 

If you believe you are struggling with an addiction that is

 

Negatively impacting the quality and health of your life, it may be

 

Time to seek assistance from a professional.

Addition typically masks an underlying problem that the person

 

Does not want acknowledge or deal with.  Aa you well know, it is

 

Really not helpful to tell the person “You have a problem in your

 

Thinking.”  Instead, much better to acknowledge the suffering and

 

Build a level of trust until the person is willing to discuss it, and if

 

Not then jut let it go.  Convincing people that they have a thinking

 

Defect is extremely damaging (if they actually believe it) and sets

 

Them up for abuse and exploitation.

 

 

 

 

 

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