Always be Proactive
There is nothing wrong with having fun, being with family and
Friends. We have to be careful about how much we do
Especially if you believe you may have any addictions
There are many issues that can become addictions besides
Alcohol and drugs (illegal or legal).
There is almost everything that can become addictions.
It is about a sense of self and the way you live your life. You can
Determine importance not only by how much you are doing it, but
how much you are letting other things go that needs to be done.
also by how much you are not doing other things.
PRIORITY EQUALS IMPORTANCE
There is nothing wrong engaging in pleasurable activity but there
Is a line between activity and addiction when the activity that is?
positive or neutral takes a decidedly negative turn.
Different families have weakened genes and DNA that if
A person takes recreational pot that can be a door to more drugs:
Meth, cocaine, heron, a murid number of things. Take myself,
My family has a lot of alcoholism and drug addictions so I treat
myself very gingerly about drinking and have never put drugs into
my body. I know I have a very addictive personality, and whether
it is drinking or food I am addictive.
Is what you are doing is causing a disruption in your life then you
need to address the issue.
I am very careful how much I drink – 1-2 glasses of wine is
my limit and usually only 1 or 2 times a year I will have wine
at home by myself.
Any addiction is a behavior that controls you. Usually people
that have addictions do not like to be controlled but cannot
understand how much they are being controlled by their
Change is the most important thing in YOUR life-and it is
sometimes the hardest thing to do but DO IT.
What Life expects from YOU does not happen unless you are
willing to make those big changes that need to be done.
We all have issues, we all probably have some kind of addictions
that maybe we are not alcoholic – there are so many other kinds
Address those issues or addictions – make the necessary
Be courageous, be strong, be brave. Use all YOUR good
energies you can dig up out of SELF.
Any addiction is a behavior that control YOU
These take center stage over YOUR better judgment or reasoned
If you believe you are struggling with an addiction that is
Negatively impacting the quality and health of your life, it may be
Time to seek assistance from a professional.
Addition typically masks an underlying problem that the person
Does not want acknowledge or deal with. Aa you well know, it is
Really not helpful to tell the person “You have a problem in your
Thinking.” Instead, much better to acknowledge the suffering and
Build a level of trust until the person is willing to discuss it, and if
Not then jut let it go. Convincing people that they have a thinking
Defect is extremely damaging (if they actually believe it) and sets
Them up for abuse and exploitation.